When a relationship goes more than 1 + 1 = 2

Recently been addicted to a Hongkie drama, 谈情说案 The Mysteries Of Love. It is basically a story about cops and relationship. To be honest, crime dramas been a favourite of mine eversince forever. Anyway, the main relationship in this drama is a guy, named KINGSLEY, who was born in a rich family, an professional graduate from Cambrige University. Whereas the girl, SI-LI-MUI is from an average family, yet to complete her degree, working as a CID. Intially, each of them will never choose either self to be their another half. However, after facing many octsacles together, they developed "chemistry".

However, things do not always flow well. As a relationship does not always "1 + 1 =  2". Although these two families already knew each other since a long time, where both families' great-grand parents worked together to remove a criminal. However, due to the belief that the poors are always greedy. Thus, Kingsley's family members do not agree with this relationship, leading to this couple faced many difficulties and pressures.

For SI-LI-MUI, as she grown up in a warm family, she is a warm and kind-hearted girl. Her family members had been supportive towards this couple relationship. However, as the equation does not stand. Hence, unhappiness were being developed among her family members after times. Thus, in order to resolve the problem, SI-LI-MUI, decided to give up her ideal job of being an CID officer, to an interpersonal department (i.e. a 9-5 white collar employee). Getting the knowledge of this, Kingsley was upset, believing that he will not be the one who is able to give SI-LI-MUI happiness. In addition to this, an accident faced by his mother, even further push Kingsley to make a decision. Hence, leading to the breakage of relationship between this couple.

P.S. If you were to be in this position, how would you resolve it? To be honest, I faced this before, and... The end result was the same.... However, this was faced at the young age. If I were to have this problem again, I wouldn't know what to do either. After all, family members' opinion are very important too. As a couple being together is "1 + 1 = 2", but it aint equal to 2 person, its 2 families. Therefore, it is normally hard to make decision when more than 2 person involved.

小資女孩經典語錄22-25集

第23集
保羅
Honesty is the best policy
現在除了誠懇道歉之外
沒有其他辦法了
小編按：保羅真的很中肯!!!!

子奇娃娃道歉法
沈杏仁
秦子奇要我告訴妳
說謊是他不對
他真的很對不起妳
但他真的很愛妳
請妳再給他一次機會
不要不理他嘛
(Yes No)
小編按：這樣的道歉法 想不原諒都很難


第24集

子奇
事業我可以靠自己的努力
但是感情不是努力
就一定有用的
沈杏仁談戀愛不像讀書或者運動
努力就一定會有回報
要遇到相愛的人
除了努力之外
還需要運氣
沒有妳我接班要幹嘛
小編按：子奇是真男人!!!


第25集最終回

杏仁給子奇的信
秦子奇
對不起
我考慮了很久
還是決定要跟你告別
你知道嗎
遇見你真的好像一場夢
很幸福的夢
跟你在一起的每一件事
我都會記得
不管是快樂的還是難過的
我都會好好留在心裡
我怕我自己不能守護你
會變成你的負擔
也許分開一段時間
對彼此都好
我們的世界真的不太一樣
你出國念過書
家裡又是開百貨行的
我只是私立大學畢業
除了工作什麼都不會
我還沒有準備好
去面對這一切
請你給我一點時間
等我知道該怎麼做了
我一定會回來
到那個時候
我們一定都會變成更好的人
到那個時候
我一定會變成
更配得上你的人
等到了那一天
換我來守護你
小編按：這封信真的是TAT
一起會變成更好的人 然後再一起的!

沈媽媽
有時候兩個很好的人在一起
並不見得
就是幸福快樂的保證

杏仁
不管這些城市有多漂亮
沒有你我一點都不快樂

子奇
我很好
除了沒有妳之外
一切都很好

子奇向杏仁求婚
妳有三件事情可以選擇
什麼選擇
第一
嫁給我
第二
我娶妳
第三
我們結婚吧
小編按：子奇求婚這個梗 大家可以學起來喔以備不時之需/////

杏仁
幸福是什麼
原來幸福不是看著對方
而是跟深愛的人手牽手
一直看著同一個方向
小編按：希望大家都能找到深愛的人看著同一個方向(淚目)

白羊座男：獨立的可愛女人­沒有女人味是很難吸引到白羊男的，除非你身材真的勁爆到一個至高點，長相又無可挑剔，他們喜歡有點嗲的女生但是他們又是最怕八婆的一群，如果在遇到性格拖遝又愛哭的女人，他們逃奔的速度絕對堪比劉翔跨欄，所以能拿捏好獨立和溫婉可愛的適中度，獨立卻不要強，可愛又懂事的女孩是他們心頭最愛。­

金牛座男：心思單純有氣質的賢內助­
金牛男最討厭的就是猜來猜去的猜心思，對於一些心思複雜的女人他們很是頭痛，努力的他們很容易成為某個專業領域的強人，而在專業以外的一些方面他們是遜到不行，務實的他們也清楚自己是多麼需要一個賢內助，同時，金牛座身為金星關照下的星座對審美也是有一定要求的，不漂亮可以忍，要再沒氣質？那在他心目中分數就低了。­

雙子座男：心思機敏的百變嬌娃­
基本上雙子男還是蠻喜歡追著女人跑的，他們喜歡不斷的接受新鮮挑戰，對於能夠他總是琢磨不透的女人他願意不斷的去鑽研。他們討厭一成不變，此外雖然超理性的女人會讓他們因為無從下手而頭大，但纏人的女人更加會讓他逃之夭夭。­

巨蟹座男：善解人意不盲目的溫婉女人­
巨蟹男具有相當的耐心愛心，也能表現出相當的包容心，所以看起來似乎他們對於女人的要求不會很苛刻，但事實正好相反，骨子裡保守重家庭並且情緒敏感的他們對於善解人意的賢妻良母非常依賴，另外對於花錢如流水的購物狂他們是避之不及的。­

獅子座男：漂亮粉絲­
獅子座男人其實是能算是好男人俱樂部的長期成員，他們能自發自動的努力奮鬥，雖然看起來大男人主義但是對於他女人提出的要求他也能儘量滿足，然而要想長期被他們寵在懷裡首先要學會的就是把他當偶像一樣捧在心頭，他們欣賞個性獨立的女生，不過僅欣賞而已，真正能拴住他的還是那個“沒了他就活不了”的溫順小女人。­

處女座男：自信的知性女人­
對於自信的知性女人，處女座男人完全是又愛又恨欲罷不能，對於挑剔而又優秀並帶著潔癖的處女座男人潛意識裡其實有那麼一點點的“犯賤”情節，不是說他們不好，而是太容易夠得著的東西不太能夠鈎得起他們的佔有欲，而他們的驕傲往往是他們知性理智的頭腦，當遇到讓他們有棋逢對手的感覺的女人是最讓他難以放手的。­

天秤座男：溫文爾雅的大眾情人­
中庸的天秤男其實喜好也很中庸，不管刹那間對方的曾經多麼吸引他，一旦你的形象被大眾否決，天秤男會立刻與你劃清界限，說他現實也罷說他虛榮也好，天秤男是社交動物，如果他的朋友他所處的社交圈子不認可你基本上你很快也會被他否定，反之，如果你是人人簇擁，口碑好的淑女，他自己會主動向你貼上來。­

天蠍座男：安靜乖乖女­
天蠍男對付女人很有一套，所以基本上要在他們面前耍什麼小聰明的手段只能是讓他們嗤之以鼻，他們佔有欲強，不喜歡女朋友到處亂跑甚至不喜歡他的女人被人看，所以他們也不喜歡女朋友不聽話，因此安靜的乖乖女會是他們最寶貝的選擇。­

射手座男：個性獨立的大女人­
生性大膽的射手男什麼都不怕，就怕兩件事：一怕女人哭；二怕女人纏。一遇到一哭二鬧三上吊型的小女子，他們唯一想做且能做的事情就是閃人、消失！而且神經大條的他們永遠不會知道自己是在什麼時候得罪了自己的女人，所以他們只有和個性獨立的女生呆在一起他們才覺得最省心。­

摩羯座男：有一定工作能力的賢妻良母­
摩羯男的選擇的偏好永遠是以務實為導向的，他們也愛美女，也喜歡身材勁爆的辣妹，但是要排序的話，他們還是更看重對方的能力，在他們看來女人也許不需要聰明過人，但是一定要有頭腦、識大體，顧大局。­

水瓶座男：有思想、有共鳴的才女­
水瓶男永遠都在尋找靈魂伴侶，有共鳴是關鍵點，同時他喜歡有個性、有見解，能表現自己意見的智慧型的女孩。只要滿足這兩點，什麼外形啦、家庭背景啦、穿著品味啦等等等等，他統統都不會在意。此外自以為是又沒什麼主見的女人是最招他反感的­

雙魚座男：現代版白雪公主­
他們個性隨意又敏感，通常雙魚男喜歡個性善良單純的女生，這種女生會讓他感到很溫和，很有安全感，至少能讓他們相信他們不會受傷，他們希望他們睜眼看到的每個人都是美好善良的，斤斤計較的現實女人和太有主見太強勢的女人都會讓他們覺得不自在。­

Picky of Food= Picky of Friends

Do you guys have food that you disliked the most or not willing to eat it, where you did promised not to eat/ touch it ever again in your life time? Well, for me, I do!

It is lamb that I used to dislike most. That’s when I first tasted lamb soup in Singapore; I will never forget that awful taste. (No offence to lamb lovers!) I believe that people who tried Lamb would know that if the meat is not marinated properly, it will result in an awful smell. I wasn’t sure if it was actually the problem during the marination of lamb or it might due to the uncomfortableness caused by my sickness at the point. Anyway, after tasting it, I immediately turned it away and let my eldest brother to help me to finish it. To be honest, at that time, I really thought that it was due to my illness, as… both my dad and eldest bro were enjoying it. Well… from this first experience of tasting Lamb, I told myself that… I will never ever taste lamb again!!

Until, I moved to my Australia home stay house. They are Chinese, Indonesian, speaking the same dialog as mine, Teochew.  The lady doesn’t know how to cook many dishes or in other words, she could only cook one dish, that is, the lamb hotpot. Oh! Also, fried eggs, as I remembered that is for her baby boys’ breakfast. Back to the topic, freakily speaking, her lamb hotpot tasted really nice! That was the first time I actually stop disliking this meat. Till then, I knew that there are goat and sheep meat. Either one of it tastes better than the other (where at this point, I totally forgotten is which, mine apologise). 

What I really want to say is that, wouldn’t this “pickiest” of food actually similar to “pickiest” of friends/ a person? Take for example, you met someone for the first time, however the first impression that she/he gave you make you really dislike her/him. To some point, might even have the thought that this person is someone who you shouldn’t be friend with. Conversely, if you are willing to give her/him (just like the food you disliked most) a second chance (try), you might discover something amazing about her/him (it).

Mother's Day 2012

My beloved mummy and me!

11 Red Roses for MUM*
11 Red roses = "you are my treasured one, the one I love most in my life".

Presents for MUM*

The first Mother's day celebration I had with my Mummy! Wasn't able to celebrate this special day with her for the past twenty-one years. Felt really guilty... However, its good that at least now... we could celebrate this day with her every year! I could see tears in her eyes when she saw our presents and especially the card we had presented to her! Her first impression was, "wow, how much is this card?".. lols.. Is it that good that it looks like purchased? Anyway, glad that you do love it~

Message to Mummy,

Just want to let you know, MUMMY, I love you... And I will always do... Despite all those nagging and scolding you given me, I will still love you!~* Thank you so much for what you had done for me... Its the time now for us, being your children to repay you!:))

Love you always, My beloved MAMA!~*

P.S. Hopefully you had spend some times celebrating this special day of the year with your Mum!

新的发型，新的心情，新的生命。

前几天，在五月二日我终于把我不知流了多久的长发剪短了。虽说这个长度还可以挷马尾，可对我来说这以是短了。

Also, due to this, I was upset for a while... lols... However, after cutting it.... I felt more freshing, even more easy to handle.... lols... drops lesser hair too!:)) hahas... Especially in this sort of weather.... that kept hanging around 35/36 degrees c.

People always say, having a new hairstyle, it means a new life ahead!:)) Hopefully, I would be able to abandon all my bad habits and unhappinesses in the past... and... being able to start a new life a fresh~:))


P.S. Maybe its time to have a new hair cut, change a bit.... As you will never know or discover the beauty after that!:))

Times passes so fast.. time is clicking...

Was looking down the posts I had made for the past few years on facebook... From the day that I actually started it (Nov 2008) till...... now... LOLS!

That was the last month I am doing Foundation in Sydney, Australia. It was also the first year I got to Australia after the completion of my Secondary school o'level in Singapore... lols...

NOW...I had graduated from UNIVERSITY...holding onto a bachelor degree... and...back in Cambodia... Staying at home, gainning experiences and pretty much..doing nothing much..beside peak period and stocking days.. hais...

21 years old to graduate from uni.... is it a bit too early? I felt like... the past few years really went so quickly!!! Those people who knew me since I am young, would know that... HOW COULD SHE MADE IT? lols...

Remembering that I used to be performing real bad in Primary school, almost going out everyday after school... Lottering around Sembawang with Schoolmates/ Classmates... doing..nth... or Playing playground... Friends actually addresses me as "Da Jie", which I have no idea why....

Don't even mention about my grades back then... It was horrible... To be honest, if it haven't been my tutor who taught and guided me since Primary five... I wouldn't have been able to make it to Express, Sembawang Sec School. Lol! Does this sound like..I do owe a Big deal to him? lols... Well, I could say that he's really a good man!:) Hais... wonder why... still yet to have a partner... or maybe he's just too good... being too filial! Anyway... back to my topic...

Looking back, I wondered... How did I really live my life for the past 20 years?! lols... What I could only say that..... Im really gladful to those who had help me for those years! and ...especially...My parents and Family members who been supporting me!:) both Phsically and Financially! lols..

P.S. Flower Received from my Bro and Future-Sis-Law on my Graduation'2012 day.

梦里

天啊！我为何会梦到他？

请不要告诉我，我这次天所梦到的都是他？（因我哥说听到我说梦话。）

不知为何，我只记得他和我在火车站，他像是要拿什么东西。但是，一张照片却掉了下来。那是一张他和她的清热照。当时，我只有一种不知明的心痛感触，但不足以让我伤心落泪。可这种感觉有一点像是我的一次在梦里哭泣但当我从梦醒来时，发现我真的落泪了。

但他发现我看到了那张，他也因此冲忙和我解释说这是一段不可能发生任何关系的往事。

但为何呢？我对他根本不太认识啊！我为何有那种感觉呢？

不解。

曾听说，每个人的梦境是自己能操动的。所以我想这一切使我自己想太多~

无语了。

last pulished... 5 feb 2011... lols..... today is also feb...but...wats different is that..today is 13th feb, the year 2012!! lols...

anyway, i just felt like releasing some anger on this blog..... as i felt like..i have no one to talk to regarding to this..since....i felt that this blog already rotten..and believed that no one would read it... so mind as well, just vomit out all my anger!>.
i wonder...whats on earth is wrong with my mum??? she's like..totally..... into herself!!!!! only think and work FOR HERSELF... wat a selfish mum!!!!!!! she thinks that ALL SHE SAID IS RIGHT...WHAT SO EVER!!!! wat do u think u are???? u having no friends..doesn't mean that we doesn't have the right to make friends and go out with MY FRIENDS!! so what u are my mum...i know u had us for 10months in ur stomach and u suffered alot to bring us to the world..but..we ain't ur Dummies!!!! that u can make us work and say according to u!!!! stupid idiot!!!!!

i really wanna be ur good daughter...but...serious?!!!!! =.=

every morning..scold scold scold... its like..if u don't scold, u will dead!!!!!!
even hit me too!!!! DUH U!!!!!

can't even go out... hey! after one month of sticking with u...can't i even go out with my close friends..... FOR ONCE....=.= not as if, im going for dating...
stupid!!!!!=,= duh...

what do u think u are?!!!=,= so wat is u're my mum!!!! not that u can force us to do everything we dont want!?!!!!!! fucku!

i have been bearing with ur idiotic temper for long!!!!!! now..even i wanna go back for grad...i can't even do watever iw anna... and..... EVEN MY BDAY..U ALSO..DON'T LET ME STAY WITH MY FRIENDS TO CELEBRATE..WAT KIND OF MUM IS THIS...~~~~~~ pissed me off!!!!!! damn u!